Ok guys, you won't believe this....but....Paypal ruled in my favour and cleared me!
So, I had my big speech down, like I just got back from my second tour in Iraq and served proudly for 17 years etc.....ready to tell them all this stuff and they put me on hold for a few minutes and I'm like crap, they're going to charge me and all that....
Well, "Kirbinator" sent me the funds with the name Kirbinator attatched to the messages and a "thank you". I used the messages from this site to link him to KHeames and made a call to paypal. I know it was a big gamble....a gamble and it worked.
One key point I left out that saved me. If you don't know and would like the info send me a PM, I will only respond if you're a life time member. That little thing saved me.
James
p.s. Thank you for all the support, I've been a member here for a long time and visit daily. I don't post much but I know most of you like family, thank you again.
p.p.s. jjmanfdl was going to give me the money from his dispute, if you're ever in Fayetteville NC, I owe you a beer and a lunch bro.