Settings go under [MQ2Bot] in server_char.ini. It's probably either GrabX, or SnareX. The wiki tells you how to disable stuff. You'd put the *if* option in the ini and then /loadbot (or for ones you can just flip or turn off, can do in game, like grabadds).
Thank you for the Info... That's where i was running into problems is the Wiki was saying to do the mezif0=0 etc, and i was searching for grab. It didn't exist. Tried adding in Grabif0=0 and grabif1=0 but they had no effect. Based on your info though, i finally noticed the last line in the section which was Ignoretheseskills and added in |Grappling Strike I|Call of Challenge V| and that seems to have worked.