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You're wrong, JJ. I snooped in the first place (and I never would have found out about this stuff at all if I hadn't) because things had been funny between us for a while and I had gone to her many, many times and said I was open to hearing whatever was going on, but she never opened up about anything. Snooping was a last resort, something I have never done to a woman before, and something I hope never to do again.
And the moment I did it, I resolved to tell her I had done it before asking her any other questions. So when I called her up, the first words out of my mouth were "I read your stuff." And she wasn't angry at all, she understood why I did it.
Snooping is definitely a breach of trust in the same sense that cheating is, but it's not the end of a relationship by any means. If you don't find anything, you're the one doing the apologizing. If you do, it's the other way around.
And though she claims nothing really happened, that doesn't make any sense based on a lot of the stuff I found/read, so the chances she's telling to the truth are pretty much non-existent. I'm 99.99 percent certain she's just trying to cover up because she's afraid of ending up single right now.
And the moment I did it, I resolved to tell her I had done it before asking her any other questions. So when I called her up, the first words out of my mouth were "I read your stuff." And she wasn't angry at all, she understood why I did it.
Snooping is definitely a breach of trust in the same sense that cheating is, but it's not the end of a relationship by any means. If you don't find anything, you're the one doing the apologizing. If you do, it's the other way around.
And though she claims nothing really happened, that doesn't make any sense based on a lot of the stuff I found/read, so the chances she's telling to the truth are pretty much non-existent. I'm 99.99 percent certain she's just trying to cover up because she's afraid of ending up single right now.
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