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I found out my partner, who I've lived with for 18 months, is stepping out on me. I confronted her and she said she's been after this guy, but he's not interested in her. And I know for a fact that he doesn't know she's taken. She's gone to great lengths to hide that from him.
So I'm finished. But the only thing I can't decide about is whether I out her to him, send him an email saying that she's pretty much super desperately in love with him (she claims he doesn't even know she likes him) and saying that this has all taken shape while she's been living with her long-term boyfriend.
If it makes any difference, she's going to be in the same place as him tomorrow so if he reads it in the immediate future she'd have to deal with the awkwardness it creates.
So I'm finished. But the only thing I can't decide about is whether I out her to him, send him an email saying that she's pretty much super desperately in love with him (she claims he doesn't even know she likes him) and saying that this has all taken shape while she's been living with her long-term boyfriend.
If it makes any difference, she's going to be in the same place as him tomorrow so if he reads it in the immediate future she'd have to deal with the awkwardness it creates.