Same problem, but I'm also 6 boxing and whenever I get a crash my OCD makes me relog all of them so I can get the taskbar straightened out the way I like it.
Wish there were a way of rearranging Windows taskbars for grouped stuff.
I was using 6 SK's to swarm Valley to level this thing and it was still the worst thing I've ever done in game. No idea what SOE were thinking with it.
Just find a porn actress that has a resemblance to the wife/girlfriend and only watch her, then if you're caught you can say she reminds you of her and problem solved.